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For relationships, I came to sum up one of the most in line with the principles of my temperament, that is, mutual respect and closeness Suiyuan. I believe that all the good friendships are formed naturally, not intentionally seek to. I also believe that no matter how good friends should have the distance, too lively friendship is often empty.

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Get along with others, especially if you feel relaxed, at ease, he also felt that the real lessons learned, I am sure, you will encounter your kind, even if you are engaged in different occupations.

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Philosophers, poets, musicians, painters have their own jargon. Sometimes, different jargon spoke the same meaning. Sometimes, the same jargon spoke a different meaning.

隔行如隔山, but did not climb the hills can not, the gulf between the soul is insurmountable. Our colleagues say jargon, the voice of a friend spit.

Interpersonal career is not the most profound distinction, but in mind.

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Bookstores to see the success of surgery professor of communication technique sort of best-selling book, I always feel funny. A person's a person with a good impression, and he or she made friends, or interested in something, trying to do it successfully, it would have been natural. Do not memorize the main points on the cross can not be friends, do not resort to tips on impossible to do business, we can see how really interested in the lack of real emotion. However, there is no real emotion, how would there be true friend? Not really interested, how would there be real undertaking? So, why should diligently on communication and success? This of course has a clear utilitarian motives, but it is quite apparent a deeper reason is that spiritual emptiness, so eager to find shortcuts to hide in the crowd and affairs. I do not know how effective I only know that if such communication companies approached to me, I will feel even more lonely, if such a successful stand in front of me, I will feel even more boring.

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Reading, such as making friends, but at least there is one exception, that is, dating technique to teach reading that book.

Dating surgery Xing, real friends die.

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Friendship is tolerance. Because of this, friends, once enemies, they are often irreversible, indicating that their differences must be very serious, and has reached the point can not be condoned.

Only good friends can take place between the break off such a thing, in the past exchanges between the deeper, and now the more difficult to repair the rift, while maintaining a acquaintance and it looks too unnatural. As originally only acquaintance who handed over non-payment of this is two can, also mention a Dear John.

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Extraversion personality people tend to get a lot of friends, but true friends are always very few. Introversion are lonely, once friends, are often true.

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Friend I have in mind, neither acquaintances of acquaintances, but also need not be soulmate close friend, and the extent as between the two. In this world there are a number of individuals, is not remembered when they meet each other, met can feel a kind of tacit understanding, and spent a pleasant time together, their mind is my friend.

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It is a lonely person. One day, the world of many lonely people have found him alone, then scrambled to make friends with him. He puzzled: they because I am lonely and am confident that I am their friend, I had so many friends, will no longer be lonely, how well qualified to be their friend?

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Get to understand the great joy of life. However, an assiduous understanding, there is no understanding of other people who'd rather die, then it was a wretch, the value of their own understanding of others were pinned on the above often do not value.

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A philosopher wrote: friends like clothing, would be worn and need to be constantly updated. In my view the opposite: that a friend is reluctant to replace a few pieces of old clothes. Of course, one may wish to wear new clothes to wear, however, can become friends, not to wear the old when it was judged not work.

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The friendship between the opposite sex can not be excluded of course, sexual attraction factor, but it still can be a real friendship. In this case, the nature of the mysterious power of situations due to objective or subjective effort is limited to a harmless good position, both for heterosexual and same-sex friendship, cast a warm friendship, which are not fun, but also not like the love stir crazy, as a possessive. In my view, if sustained effort to do this, this is the best kind of relationship between opposite sex.
(Text / Zhou Guoping)